Now, I've looked through many tutorials on this site, as well as google, and a lot of them are outdated and don't help.
Basically I have XBMC all installed and working, but I don't know how to install Icefilms. Where do you go in XBMC to install the add-ons? Is there a source, like a website, or do I need to SSH into the iPad?
Open XBMC Go to Settings > Addons > Install from zip file Browse to your downloads and select it. Repository installed!
Now you can install Icefilms.info from within XBMC, by navigating to Settings > Addons > Get Add-ons > anarchintosh add-ons
Basically all sites say to do this, but on my iPad/iPhone there is no option for this under settings.